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欲望与尊严:转型期中国的阶层、性别与亲密关系图书

Desire and Dignity: Class, Gender and Intimacy in Transitional China

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[内容简介] 本书以婚外包养关系为棱镜,透视市场转型期中国社会的亲密关系及其背后的情感逻辑与伦理实践。对不同阶层的男性而言,婚外包养是否具有相同的意涵?城市本地女性与外来打工妹在这些关系里的经历和感受又有什么样的差异?在本书中,为期一年的田野调查将化作一个个耐人寻味的个人故事。透过这些嵌入在阶层变迁、城乡流动、消费主义兴起和性别关系重塑背景中的私人生活选择与体验,本书将探讨亲密关系如何成为人们实践“欲望”和获得“尊严”的重要途径。

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作 者: 肖索未
编 辑:赵娜
出版社:社会科学文献出版社
出版时间: 2018年11月
语 种:汉文
中图分类:C91 社会学

 序

 后记

 附录 “混”在亲密与道德的边缘

 导论

  研究视野里的“婚外包养”

  道德人类学的伦理转向

  亲密关系与伦理实践

   (一)亲密关系的伦理维度

   (二)亲密关系的道德与伦理

  市场转型期的阶层与性别重构

  田野调查

  章节概述

 第一章 阶层化男性气质的亲密建构

  打造尊严:工薪阶层男性气质的生产

   (一)实惠而体贴的家务劳动

   (二)安抚男性尊严

  彰显地位:商人阶层男性气质的演绎

   (一)符号化的家务劳动

   (二)多维度的情感劳动

   (三)私人关系的外显

  小结

 第二章 时尚的重要性:都市女性的“尊严经济”

  性别、消费文化与供养历史

  与男人的游戏:有底线地讨价还价

  社会网络与亲密关系中的自我维系

  “将来的那个人”

  小结

 第三章 “一半被钱感动,一半被人感动”:亲密关系与向上流动

  走出大山的奋斗

  有钱男人的“善意”与打工妹的“报恩”

  被困扰的亲密关系

  未婚妈妈的骄傲与哀愁

  小结

 第四章 “今天不知明天事”:打工妹的情感困境

  “在这边玩几个月就回家了”

  自我隔离

  “伴侣”纽带

  “今天不知明天事”

  小结

 第五章 什么样的男人值得爱?

  “借人家的老公用一下”:养家与男人的责任感

  “我喜欢比我年纪大的人”:成熟与男性魅力

  小结

 第六章 当孩子呱呱坠地:生育与关系的长久化

  “女人嘛,总是要找个对自己好的”

  “生小孩”与关系的质变

  从“女朋友”到“老婆”

  “只要我们不吵不闹,一辈子肯定过得完”

  小结

 第七章 在欲望与责任之间:男人自白

  小徐:“要是老婆对我好,我也不会在外面找。”

  老王:“不喜欢过原来那种窝囊的日子。”

  严龙:“别的没有,我就是想有个人来理解我。”

  阿毛:“毕竟男人嘛,关键是做事,这种事情现在也挺多的。”

  不离婚:责任、利益与“面子”

  小结

 结论

  婚外包养与亲密关系伦理

  婚外包养中的性别、阶层与城乡

  市场转型中的欲望与尊严

本书以婚外包养关系为棱镜,透视市场转型期中国社会的亲密关系及其背后的情感逻辑与伦理实践。对不同阶层的男性而言,婚外包养是否具有相同的意涵?城市本地女性与外来打工妹在这些关系里的经历和感受又有什么样的差异?在本书中,为期一年的田野调查将化作一个个耐人寻味的个人故事。透过这些嵌入在阶层变迁、城乡流动、消费主义兴起和性别关系重塑背景中的私人生活选择与体验,本书将探讨亲密关系如何成为人们实践“欲望” 和获得“尊严” 的重要途径。

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